It is 4:17 AM and my new puppy friend, Button, who woke up a few minutes ago, is keening in her crate. At 8-weeks-old, she has just left her litter. This AM, she’s been to her papers., had water and has toys in her crate. She’s had a brief cuddle as I carried her (without much comment from me as 4 AM is not a time I want her getting up so I don’t reward it with a lot of attention).
She can see me from where she is but her cries are ear-piercingly loud. So loud that I’ve closed the windows to spare the neighbors. Anyone who has ever lived through this knows this sound.
She is not hysterical – the only word I can attach to some pup’s experience. If she were, I’d bring her crate over next to me, might add in some warmth like a Snuggle Pup and do this is stages. I’ve done that many times.
But she is a pup who can self-calm nicely. She starts to wind down pretty quickly – her volume lowers and the gaps between cries lengthens.
We’re both in for about 3 days of this. She’ll get plenty of cuddling and play time, lap napping and chew toys, but none of that will prevent any of this. She just has to get used to this new life of hers.
Why do puppies cry like this? The common explanation is that she misses her mother/litter mates. That may be part of it but I think there is something else going on here.
Any 8-week-old puppy who found herself alone in the wilderness, separated from her family, would very quickly be a dead puppy. My guess, from observation and tons of early AM contemplation, is that everything in a puppy tells her to call out – loudly – for the adults. To find her group.
It is an alarm call.
You know why else I think this? From how other dogs can react to hearing it. Play the audio below, recorded in the car on Button’s first moments in her new life, and tell me what your dog does.
Chances are pretty good that when that sound fills your home, your adult dog(s) will come running with obvious concern. Many seem hard-wired to respond to that sound. Just as we are. Ever hear a child – any child – scream a true scream outdoors? Any adult I know would drop everything – instantly – and bolt toward the sound.
As Button adapts and attaches to me, she will calm. Her crying will moderate and then, finally and thankfully for both of us, subside.
Note: Day two and we made it until 4:31 AM. Her current crying is half what it was yesterday and, even at its peak, it is less intense, less piercing, less desperate than yesterday. As expected, she is adapting. Good puppy! Oh and now, at 4:38 AM, she is asleep. I’m right behind her.
Note2: Day three, 5:38 AM and all is quickly quiet.
It is nice when this stage is over – for all concerned.